Which is it?
“If I had more money, I would save more money and do more fun things, and then I’d be happier.”
Or, is it?
“If I am happy, my work will be more productive and I’ll save more money, then I’ll have the money to do what I love to do.”

Which is it?
“If I only had more friends, I could do more fun things, and I’d be happier.”
Or, is it?
“If I am happy, I’ll get out and do more things, and I will create more friendships.”

Have-Do-Be thinking is wishful thinking. Be-Do-Have thinking is to “own your happiness.” The doing is always important, but your state of being is more likely to motivate you to do it than is your wishing.

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